Quilt of Lies! We are a unique CalArts community archival space where people can share and reflect on the lies they've encountered, whether big or small. This platform is designed for those who have been lied to and are seeking a sense of connection and understanding in what can often feel like an isolating experience.
Here, you can safely share the lies you’ve been told, open up meaningful discussions, and find solace in knowing you’re not alone. Whether you’re here to contribute or simply pass through, this space offers a chance to laugh, cry, and find a bit of healing in the shared experiences of believing others.
This site was made and designed by someone with firsthand experience of the effects of intense compulsive lying from a partner for almost two years. Its intentions and hope is for a safe space for others who have encountered such a unique type of manipulation from a partner/loved one and to allow space for such confusing feelings that often are extremely isolating. Lying although often small for others, when done by a (often self-aware) compulsive liar can damage the mentality of its victims. Leaving them to learn to re-trust others, relearn what they thought they knew, and gain back the dignity from letting someone so close to them use them (as much as everyday).
The freedom to write and include names goes towards our sites push for accountability and to give a voice to those that may have felt silenced in said lies.